You don't have to cook if you don't want to, I do 99% of the cooking/cleaning of the kitchen in our household, I love it when she decides to cook ( 3 times a year ) maybe? Being able to and or wanting to cook is not a prerequisite for marriage, I know people who have lavish well planned elaborate kitchens and they go out everyday breakfast, lunch, dinner. and they are quite happily married. The thought that a woman has to cook is from the stoneage. ;)