Wish I could help.... San Diego is unknown territory to me (and mabe the same is true for others, hence no responses). Give the forum a chance..... you only placed one post....
I got my Lexus about 4 weeks ago & the dealer only had 1 of the remote keys. I made the dealer handle it, otherwise no deal. Did you know you were only getting 1 valet key before you signed the papers or did they not disclose this to you? If they did not disclose that, you need to go back to the dealer & tell them to handle it.