Hey Ramblnman, don't feel bad - seems like we all struggle with this programing the homelink thing, but I did manage to program mine before having to call the dealer. Try following the instructions in the manual - EXCEPT - where it says press the homelink button 2x's Here's the trick - PRESS IT 3X'S IN SUCCESSION! I don't know why, but this worked for me after several frustrating attempts to do it according to the manual. Hope this helps, good luck!