THX ALOT DUDE
I JUST CAME BACK FROM my lexus dealer, for the bluetooth interfacing,,,,, its pretty simple, if you phone isnt compatible, specially with the multiple phone number transfer, they ask me to put all my contact in speadsheet format, all he did was to transfer the speadsheet to his outlook program and then transfer to his phone, he uses a v9 motorola, and a sony ( which have the capability to transfer multiple contacts, then in 5 sec, he is done.
Im using an Iphone, that the thing that sucks, they way to go is to invest in a phone that is compatible, you can check out the list of the most compatible phones at the lexus websites, im sure i can find one in ebay, keep it handy incase i can do it myself, why pay 170 clams for something that simple, just a matter of getting a spare phone.