I did the same search on ebay you did to come up with those options and although I do apprecaite it, the first remote was the wrong one and the second thing talked about a switch and volume assembly.
I also saw that thread on the Tunrda forum and made the same post I made here on there. A guy PM'ed me that he had one and I could buy it from him, so hopefully that will work out. If not, I will try to find a car stereo or a pioneer store here in Houston.
Again, thanks for the response, I do apprecaite the help.