thanks for the help man, i knew eventually somebody would see this that would be able to help
i already ordered the avic-n1 so getting the OEM unit isn't an option........
as far as the speakers go, i know i can bypass the pre-amp and use the speakers that are in there, but this is another issue to handle! its possible i already have non-factory speakers anyways cause there are tweeters installed on the rear doors that aren't OEM, but I haven't taken the doors off yet so I'm not sure
if you're a dealer and have parts to sell, give me your number or email and i'll hit you up
thanks again for the help