Armyofone, thanks! Your posts are very helpful.
I have been checking out Toyota shops and I found one that is very reasonable and easy to work with, Sterling McCall Toyato in HWY59/Bltwy8 area in Houston. We'll see how there work is but their prices seem to be fair for the work and getting it done should be pretty convenient.
The prices I got are:
Timing belt - $287 (I forgot to ask about TB tensioner but I've heard I may want to do that too)
drive belts - $21 - (just the cost of the parts since they're doing the TB)
PCV/Grommet - $16
Spark plugs - $146 (they don't recommend doing the wires unless the see a problem with them)
Coolant flush - $50
Brake fluid flush - $88
Tranny flush w/chemical treatment - $169
They're also going to check out the water pump while doing the TB but they said they don't recommend changing it unless it needs it which would be about $350 parts and labor (in conjunction with the TB change).
Then they are going to inspect my oil leak. Since the work above is all well within reason, I think if it is the RMS and it is less than $800 I am going to do it. If it's much more than that I may just live with the leak, which really seems to only be a problem in that if I spring another oil leak I may not notice it as easily since I will think it is the RMS leak. I bought some oil stop leak liquid and will probably try that after this work is done.
Thanks again for all the help!
Dan