Well I fixed the ignition problem it was the primary coil. Thanks again for all the advice.
Now back to my first problem, the overheating. I narrowed it down to the heater control valve, because one, it is a common problem for lexus v8s, and two, someone told me that if that is clogged it wouldn't circulate, also it tells the fan ecu to spin faster.
I know it is the fan, cause it DOESN'T spin faster at normal temp. And I know it can spin faster cause if I unplugged the coolant temp sensor, which is located on the radiator, it DOES spin faster. I found a engine cooling fan-hydrolic repair on this forum and it says that the fan ecu gets info from the heater control valve.
I hope this is the problem, cause I am starting to run out of money. Has anyone tried cleaning or repairing the heater control valve?