Blackhorse. No problem my friend. I have taken several photos and will try to post. Briefly here was the process. Buy a second ashtray for about $35. The gently pry the faceplate off of the tray which was fairly easy because it has plastic "keepers" that can gently be pryed loose. Then use some good screws (it is a Lexus you know) to hold your controler's mount to this new, and removed faceplate. Then snap the faceplate back on the new ashtray's main carraige assembly. Then you are essentially done.
As for wiring, remove the trim panel just above your feet and find the factory prewire. On mine it was nicely taped up under the dash. I believe I used the "E-Trailer.com" adapter wire which fit perfectly. Then I routed the wire towards the console and let it peek out just to the right of the driver's seat.
Then, with the assembly complete, I keep this "second ashtray" and the brake controler in the rear storage area of the car behind the storage panel. When I want to tow, I get the wire out, feed it through the controller's custom mount and plug it into my Prodigy. Then put the modified ashtray into the dash. The brake controller is in plain sight and just in front of my right hand. Also, if you need to have more convenient access to the brake controller, just tap the ashtray and the smooth Lexus operation extends it about 2 or 3 inches closer to your hand for calibration and manual operation of the controls. I have had this operational for about 5 years and it has been a great place for it to be. And if I ever sell the car all I have to do is make sure the original ashtray is installed and my wire is disconnected and I have NOT damaged my dashboard at all.
By the way, I am not yet successful at putting these photos in the post. If you will tell me how to post them I'll get them up. Otherwise I hope my description will work for you.
Good Luck