ok, well i disconnected the battery and that didn't work. I tried wd40 but the lock will not budge with the key in there, not even with the key upside down. its as if some crazy glued it but i doubt that because i am parked by a friends house and i was there only an hour when i had this problem. after 24 hours the car will not start . the alarm can't be deactivated because the door lock is stuck.
i noticed that there is a switch in the car to activate the button on the key, i'll try to get a new battery again and turn the switch on.
i'm wondering should i call a locksmith or do i have to go to the dealer ??
by the way thanks for the advice so far, its reallly appreciated.