I've read too many threads in which people spend $1000+ chasing problems around only to have it be something else. Those are all things that could be contributing to reduced driveability but the lack of a CEL at KOEO, no code retrieval with an expensive scan tool and no codes when terminal jumping leads me to believe it is primarily the ECU. Any response to those specific symptoms? Also, it is unlikely that an ECU would fail in those regards and not also effect running condition...
Also, to edit my original post, it is not just running kind of poorly. This morning it all of a sudden went from running fine to extreme power loss, major hesitation, no acceleration, etc etc., however did not completely die. Also, pulling the plug wires off individual cylinders produces no effect and the spark is weak, leading me to believe it is currently in limp mode. However, it should still display the CEL at KOEO and should put out codes.