Thanks - I found that last night and used it as a guide to see what I was doing. The IAC on my Explorer is much bigger so I just wasn't sure if the metal piece came off as well - thanks for the link though!
So are you ready for the cause of the problem?????
Drum roll....the BATTERY!!!! This one completely caught me out of left field for the following reasons:
1) The original had been replaced about 2-3 years ago from Lexus under warrantee (it was defective).
2) The car was started a couple times this week.
3) The car was started yesterday and would run for 5 seconds before dieing - several times in a row.
4) I jump started it and could not get it to turn over.
Had the car been at my house I would have hooked it up to my charger and it would have told me if the battery was dead (as it did with my Maxima). Also, if it had not turned over at all yesterday that is the first thing I would have replaced - I figured it was just depleted because of the constant cranking of the engine and the cold weather.
On my Maxima I had the battery completely die like that due to lack of use so like the Lexus the battery was not low on juice - it was completely DEAD. No amount of charging would have helped it.
Well the total bill came to about $340 along with her routine service, diagnostic fees, and the battery. I'm not crazy about it but they did spend time and I feel the dealer should get paid for it. Also, I cleaned all the carbon build up off of the throttle body, MAF and IACV so that should be good. She also feels better knowing that the rest of the car checked out OK and the new battery should keep her on the road for many more years.
I guess we were all wrong but I really appreciate all the help from everyone!!!!
Moral of the story - if your car has these symptoms go to Sears and pick up a Die Hard Gold for $80 before getting it towed to the dealer first!!