Let me help you out on this one, I just bought an RX300 a couple weeks ago and went through the same thing. The reflective tint on the back windows obviously cannot be removed, so what I did was have them put limo tint on the back windows and the rear hatch behind the reflective glass. This makes it impossible to see in and still looks reflective from the outside. The place I took it to also had a dark reflective tint that matched the stock windows perfectly for the front. I will take some pictures after Hurricane Jeanne passes me so you can judge for yourself, but it looks perfect, I love it.