Thanks, Edward. My IS 250 is a standard model with the navigation system, not a sport model (F?). So, I think I'm back to the rim and tire size.
I do know that if I add more air between me and the road (higher profile), the ride will be softer. I did it with my old SC 300 by 10 or 15 profile units. So, it's the limitations of wheelwell and computers on the IS that concern me.