Thanks for the extra info. It is disappointing that the 450h does not do more. I do think that calling it downright dangerous might be a bit of a hyperbole though, as that would mean that every front wheel drive vehicle is also dangerous since they don't engage the rear wheels. Winter tires are the law here, and I'd get them before getting AWD (better handling/safety bang for the buck), at least here where it usually stays close or below freezing for 4 months in a row (el ninio and global warming notwithstanding).
We have not been getting much snow here, so I have not had a chance to try doing doughnuts in a mall parking lot yet. I only have had my 450h for almost 2 weeks, and it spent one of those at an airport parking lot. Otherwise, I really love the car. Maybe it is perspective as I came from a 2006 Ford Escape Hybrid. The FEH was a good, dependable car (least trouble than any car I've ever owned, or maybe tied with my '87 Mazda 323LX) but lacked a lot of stuff. AWD, but no stability control. You complain about the Nav system? Have a look at that one! Try flipping CDs when you change regions, or having it plot a drive from anywhere in Canada to anywhere in the US (it can't as it has Canada on one CD, and various US regions on others). Try seat heater buttons that are placed next to the seat position switches (out of sight and no on/off tactile feedback)...
You are right. A 2wd car can be driven adequately in the snow. Any car is in itself not dangerous and needs to be driven properly. What is dangerous in my mind is if you expect an advertised safety feature to switch on and it doesn't. Everyone, including Lexus, assumes it does.