Called Lexus. Initially he thought I was talking about the sludge problem. But after he talked to the Toy dealer, he said there was no such program for the trannies. BUT he said he would still try to do something for us in terms of compensation (full, partial etc). He talked to the service guy at the Toy dealer and got my name, number, vin etc.. I had the tranny service done at Lexus and more at Toy at 75k. I'm at 100k now. So at least I can show I've not neglected the tranny as far as fluid changes.
I hope they can do something. At least they didn't shrug me off and say "we can't help you".
Hell it's worth a try right? Final tally = $4,718.16. Includes a labor discount of some sort and a rear engine main seal replacement.
Wish me luck.