actually went to the dealer and had them fix the problem. Tried to talk to a mechanic after the problem was fixed with the memory seat buttons, and Lexus dealership would not let me talk with him said he was extremely busy. Went to store to get gas and a cup of coffee fro the road, low and behold a mechanic from the dealership. I asked the guy about it and he was actually the one who fixed the problem and performed the 30,000 maintance. He said that was all it was. He told me to disconnect the battery both positive and negative posts, wait about five minutes then reconnect. (Side note move driver side seat all the way back and back of seat farther back than parallel). Reconnect the battery negative first, then positive. Put key in ignition start move seat forward until beep is made, then move back of seat forward till beep is made. After the two beeps are heard buttons should work. This guy was really helpful unlike the dealership. Hopes this helps someone in the future.
Have you tried disconnecting the battery for 5 minutes. Anything electronic that tends to go wrong usually needs to be reset by disconnecting the battery. I always had luck doing that with all my memory, rear view side mirrors electronic issues. Try that it might work.
P.S. - You'll loose all your preset radio stations, but it might be worth it.
Good Luck,
Blaise