-UPDATE-
went to the dealer today. they couldn't seem to find the right replacement. they know they dont have the right one in stock, but they can order on tomorrow.
Radioshack didn't have it, Autozone didn't, carquest, pep boys, advanced auto parts... NONE OF THEM HAVE IT!!
for those of you that have done this: if you bought it at a dealer, what is the part number?? please try to find this for me.
Thx a ton for all of your help everyone.