The DVD Drive is located in the rear cargo area under the floor where the tire tools are located. It is on the right hand side in a trianglar shaped area behind a panel. The panel is on the right rear most side. Behind the panel you will find a slot loading DVD drive. There is a small switch on the top left hand side of the drive slide it to the left and it will eject the disk. You may need a flashlight to see the switch. TYou just insert the disk back in to reload it and return the switch to its original position and replace the panel.
As for getting new nav disks the only other place I have seen them is on eBay. If you have 6.1 you have the latest that I know of.