Man, she sounds like my yungest daughter, always looking for mr. muscle, bad dude,and she is now a single mom....Watch out for those girls, they really dont have a clue, Find that girl that is not in the in crowd hiding behind the books, but is nice looking....She will be your real find, a diamond in the rough...Everyone is right, college will be a whole new arena, people that have real goals, and real places to go, no time for the junior high and high school games. Have a great time on your trip, take some pictures, and in 20 years look at them and smile, while you escort the right woman on your arm through life. It is truely hard being mister nice, I too can relate, but you will be rewarded, trust us, it will happen.