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Now we all know that we are going to obey the speed limit laws of our own states, correct?

Running at about 70-75mph, it really depends. First of all, is your wife coming from a car or minivan, which both have a lower center of gravity? If so, at first it may feel unstable as an SUV really drives differently than a car or van. Secondly, if you take gusty winds as a factor (which I'm not sure if that's common in your area) then an SUV will feel really unstable to drive in gusty winds.
Now if your wife is coming from a different SUV, then the GX feels very stable in any scenario. It just takes a little getting used to the vehicle. Otherwise, since the GX is top heavy, it is "stable" even when running at about 70-75mph and even with gusty winds.